first got involved in learning pickup when I got myself a copy of ‘The Game’. In the beginning I Was trying out all the methods in the book, and others I could find online, but it kept coming across as a bit sleazy and meh…

So I never got fully involved in any kind of pickup because it never fully appealed to my personality. (I’m a bit introverted and definitely not a performer).

I then had a friend mention a course he had done with School of Attraction, and he insisted it was nothing like what I had read those years before… He was absolutely right! I went along to a free seminar he was running, and signed up for his 13 week course on the spot.

The program wasn’t about trying to get me to change who I am, it was about developing myself as a man and building my confidence.

It’s intense and long, but by the end I had come such a long way! I wasn’t perfect yet… You really can’t be perfect at anything in 12 weeks, but I was full of confidence in myself, and my ability to keep getting better and better… I’ve finished the program 3 months now, and I’m still consistently improving thanks to School of Attractions massive online community which means there are guys for me to head out with and practice with most days of the week.

Basically, when Damien suggested I could post up a review if I Was still happy with them 3 months on, I jumped at the chance to help spread the good word. These guys are fantastic, they really know what they are doing and will change your life forever.

Tip for consumers: Be aware, this is a pretty hardcore program that requires dedication and time to invest. You WILL get results, but don’t think you can cruise through it and still see massive changes.

I did Damien’s 12 week Sincere Seduction Intensive course about a year ago now. And as I promised Damien when I first signed up, if I still felt great about the program a year later, I would write him a review.

The program itself is longer than any I had seen before. It’s also quite a large number of hours, totalling about 7-8 hours of time commitment a week. This was tough for me at times, but I could totally see why it was set up this way. After 12 weeks, I wouldn’t say all my woman problems were solved, but I was still a totally changed man in my behaviour towards women. I started out nervous and shy, and came out the other end determined and focussed, I had earned what Damien called ‘killer instinct’.

So to anyone thinking about doing this program with School of Attraction I say this: You really won’t find a more comprehensive program anywhere. The coaches really know what they are doing and support you above and beyond what you would expect. They don’t promise to solve all your problems in 12 weeks, and I think that’s fair because nobody can, this stuff takes time after all. BUT they do promise to change your life, and give you ongoing support long after the program is finished. If you want long lasting change, this is the place to go.

I’m still a part of the community of ex-students who continue to go out and improve themselves. 12 months ago, I had 2 ex girlfriends, and almost no other experience with women.. Now I’m on about 3 dates a week, and some of them are going all the way.

Comprehensive, Insightful, Life changing

Time Consuming

I finished the 13 week Sincere Seduction course a few month ago, and I just wanted to write my thoughts looking back.

When I first signed up, I signed up for the theory content and the in person coaching over 3 months – All of that was really good and professional, but the biggest reason I think this course has proven to be one of the best investments for me was their community.

Being relatively new to Sydney (I moved here about 3 years ago) – I don’t have that many friends.

Damien has built a really amazing community of other students who are out practising regularly. The guys are really friendly and supportive and there are always mentors around too who have been able to help keep me motivated and practising and getting results long after the course was over.

So if you’re like me and want to find guys to become friends and go out with as well as get really great in person coaching, I definitely recommend School of Attraction.

Okay, so full disclosure up front, as a past student, Damien Diecke, the head coach asked me if I wanted to write a review for him and I was happy to help. Damien asks us not to write reviews until a few months after we’ve finished the course so that we can give a more rounded account of our lives afterwards which is something I really respect him for.

I finished the Sincere Seduction program 3 months ago and all I can say is that my life looks so very different to how it did this time last year.

This time last year I was a few months out of a soul-destroying marriage, all my friends were either married or too busy with work to hang out and try to meet women. I was feeling super-introverted and quite lonely. I felt like being Chinese-Australian didn’t help me make friends or meet women either.

How is my life looking today? Well.. I have a girl I’m seeing casually at the moment, and I have a really great group of friends in the School of Attraction community I head out with every week to laugh and talk to girls. I have new dates every week, and some of them lead to the bedroom so I’m feeling pretty fulfilled there.

For me, the most important part of the program was Learning to overcome some of the bias against Asian men in Australia, and learning to believe in myself and the fact that I deserve to have incredible women in my life. I no longer lock up and stutter around gorgeous women – I still get to be myself and be a big nerd sometimes, but I’m not doing it in a way that’s charming rather than pathetic.

For any guys wondering about doing the program, I say DO IT! It will be the best investment you ever make in yourself.