
Dating Coach Sydney | 12-Week Confidence Transformation for Men
You’re Smart. You’re Successful.
But Dating Still Feels Impossible.
Join Sydney’s highest-rated dating coaching program. Over 12 weeks, build genuine confidence and learn how to connect with women naturally—without manipulation or games.
Psychologist-approved • 1,000+ men coached • 98% recommend us
Next Start Date: Fri 23rd Jan
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No Sleaze.
No Manipulation.
No Games.
When it comes to dating coaching for men, I believe in real confidence, genuine connection, and psychology that works in the real world - not lines, routines, or manipulation.

AVERAGE CLIENT RATING

What You'll Get From Our Dating Coaching Program
You’ll Know Exactly What to Say
Never run out of things to say again — learn how to create fun, confident conversations that women love.
Confidence That Doesn’t Go Away
Rewire your mind and body to feel genuinely confident in social situations. This isn't fake-it-till-you-make-it—this is deep, lasting transformation that works in every area of your life.
Women Actually Start Noticing You
Stop feeling invisible. Learn the body language, communication skills, and social calibration that makes women naturally attracted to you—without pickup artist tricks.
WHAT DO OUR STUDENTS HAVE TO SAY?
Why Our Dating Course Actually Gets Results
Real In-Field Practice, Not Just Theory
You'll spend 52 hours actually talking to women in Sydney venues with expert coaching—not just watching videos at home. This is how confidence becomes real and automatic.
Psychologist-Approved for Emotional Health
Our program has been formally reviewed by a licensed psychologist to ensure it builds long-term confidence, emotional intelligence, and respectful connection—not manipulation or toxic behaviours.
Designed for Intelligent, Overthinking Men
We've coached 1,000+ professionals, engineers, and smart guys who think too much. You don't need to become a loud extrovert—you'll learn to be confidently YOU.
Sydney's Largest Wingman Community
You're never doing this alone. You'll join 200+ active members in our wingman community—real guys who'll practice with you, support you, and become lifelong friends.
Your 12-Week Dating Transformation
Here’s how the course works over 12 weeks
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How To Approach Women And Hook The Conversation
Create the perfect first impression through body language and engaging small talk
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Flirting Skills – Build Attraction Through Humor & Teasing
Build attraction by making her laugh and demonstrating your Interest
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3
Build Unstoppable Confidence - Learn To Wing
Proven techniques for overcoming approach anxiety. Learn how to support and amplify each other's success.
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Build Deep Rapport & Never Get Flaked On Again
Master conversation skills that create genuine connection, trust, and clear next steps with women you meet.
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Text Game & First Date Strategy That Actually Works
Turn phone conversations into real dates with confidence, clarity, and the right balance of interest.
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Showcase Your Strengths & Authentic Personality
Identify and naturally demonstrate your most attractive qualities without bragging or faking it.
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Create Sexual Tension & Escalate with Confidence
Identify when she's interested and create so much sexual tension that escalation seems like a foregone conclusion
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8
Navigate Casual Relationships with Honesty & Respect
Identify compatibility for casual dating and maintain these connections without mixed signals or hurt feelings.
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9
Find & Attract Your Ideal Long-Term Partner
Learn to screen for compatibility and attract women who align with your relationship goals.
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10-12
Leadership Training & Advanced Mentoring
Compound your skills by mentoring newer students—developing the leadership qualities women find naturally attractive.
Dating Coaching Reviews
What Our Sydney Students Say
It's A Long-Term Relationship
Serious amount of value
Meet Damien Diecke –
Sydney Dating Coach Since 2009.
I've coached over 2,000 Sydney men to build dating confidence that genuinely lasts—without pickup artist manipulation.
I used to be exactly where you are: overthinking every interaction, avoiding rejection, hoping women would just magically be attracted to me. What changed everything was building real-world social confidence through deliberate practice and honest feedback.
Now I run Australia's most respected dating coaching program—one that's been psychologist-approved and has helped everyone from shy engineers to confident executives improve their dating lives.
If you're tired of online advice that doesn't translate to real life, let's talk.
Dating Coaching Packages & Pricing (Sydney).
Most of our clients say this is the best investment they’ve ever made — not because it’s cheap, but because it works.
POPULAR CHOICE
Sincere Seduction Intensive
Our core coaching program delivering dating success to 1000s of men over the last 17 years
Sincere Seduction Exclusive
Tailored for high performers who want a 1:1 personal touch, value their privacy and elite level guidance
12 Weeks
12 Weeks - Everything in Intensive PLUS:
52 hours in-field coaching (small group sessions)
Private 1:1 in-field sessions (no group training)
27 hours video training (lifetime access)
Personal inner game sessions with Damien
9 personal strategy sessions
Weekly audio analysis of your interactions
Weekly inner game & confidence training
Professional stylist consultation & shopping session
Leadership mentoring program (Weeks 10-12)
Priority scheduling
Sydney wingman community access
Unlimited email/SMS support
$5,495
*Payment Plan: 3x $1,990/month
$12,595
POPULAR CHOICE
Sincere Seduction Intensive
Our core coaching program delivering dating success to 1000s of men over the last 17 years
12 Weeks
52 hours in-field coaching (small group sessions)
27 hours video training (lifetime access)
9 personal strategy sessions
Weekly inner game & confidence training
Leadership mentoring program (Weeks 10-12)
Sydney wingman community access
Unlimited email/SMS support
$5,495
*Payment Plan: 3x $1,990/month
Sincere Seduction Exclusive
For high-performers who want maximum privacy and personalized attention
12 Weeks - Everything in Intensive PLUS:
Private 1:1 in-field sessions (no group training)
Personal inner game sessions with Damien
Weekly audio analysis of your interactions
Professional stylist consultation & shopping session
Priority scheduling
$12,495

Money Back Guarantee
If you've tried everything in the course and you're still getting no luck, we'll give you a full refund with sincere apologies. Simple as that!
Here's Exactly What To Expect (Step By Step)
Whay happens after you apply?
1
APPLY
Fill in the form to book a consultation call
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REGISTER
After the call, we'll invite you to join if you're a good fit
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Tailor & Schedule
You'll complete a brief questionnaire and we'll coordinate your weekly sessions based on your availability
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BEGIN
Your 12-week transformation starts with a strategy session and live coaching
Frequently Asked Questions
❓ How is this different from pickup artist courses?
We focus on genuine confidence and authentic connection—not manipulation, lines, or toxic behaviors. Our program is psychologist-approved and emphasizes respect and emotional intelligence.
❓ Will this work if I'm shy, introverted, or socially awkward?
Absolutely. 70% of our students identify as introverts or naturally quiet. You don't need to become loud or extroverted—you'll learn to be confidently yourself.
❓ What's the time commitment for the dating course?
4-6 hours per week: 4 hours for in-field coaching sessions plus 1-2 hours for video training and mindset work.
❓ Do you offer dating coaching for professionals?
Yes—many of our students are engineers, lawyers, doctors, and business owners. We understand your time constraints and privacy needs.
❓ Is the dating coaching in-person or online?
Our Sincere Seduction program is in-person in Sydney with real-world practice. We also offer online coaching packages for regional or international students.
❓ How much does dating coaching cost in Sydney?
ur comprehensive 12-week program ranges from $5,495 to $12,595 depending on the level of personalization. Payment plans available.
❓ What if I'm older (40+, 50+)?
Age is not a barrier—we've successfully coached men from 19 to 65. Confidence and social skills matter far more than age.
❓ How do I know if I'm a good fit for the program?
Book a free consultation call. We'll discuss your situation honestly and only invite you if we genuinely believe we can help you get results.
Great quiz
Really easy to understand.
Mostly useless
The results basically contained no insight whatsoever about my dating personality. Just a couple of platitude about me being confident and self-direct, and the suggestion to let other help me (who would have guessed?). Exactly zero information about how my personality impacts dating, or which are my weak spot in terms of my relationship to women, etc. Nothing.
The effort I think was genuine, thats why I didnt give one star, but so far the bar was very very low
Dating Personality Test Review
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Dating Personality Test
by School of Attraction | Mar 6, 2019 | Personality Test
Results
Abstract Thinking
You place great value on Intelligence, and get great enjoyment out of intellectually stimulating conversation. You get bored very easily around people who do not engage you on an intellectual level. You need to be aware that no-matter how attractive a woman is, if she does not have the brains, you are going to get sick and tired of her very quickly. You will very quickly come to internalise general attraction theories, but you need to be careful not to assume you know everything and remember that a solid knowledge of the basics is the foundation of success.
Dominant
It has always been important to you that your views are right and everyone else is incorrect. You very quickly dismiss theories related to attraction that are contrary to your own beliefs as being unworthy of consideration. You must try to remember that everyone has at least one thing they can teach you, and that nobody on earth has been right 100% of the time. When going out picking up women with buddies, you have to be careful to keep your competitive streak in check. When talking with women, try to actively focus on being open-minded about their opinions as you run the risk of being seen as stubborn and/or narrow-minded. You are painfully aware of differences in social status when you are out around others, but try to keep in mind that perceived social status can easily change from one day to the next and those that judge your social status too harshly are not worth knowing at all.
Bold
You are very self-confident and enjoy taking risks. You may well be able to look back on things you have done in your life and thought -I can not believe I did that and LIVED! – Since you place great value on risk-taking experiences that provide adventure, it is unlikely that you have much trouble approaching women in bars. If you are having trouble attracting the right sort of women in your life, it is most likely going to be because you are being perceived as brash and insensitive. To be happy in a relationship, you need to find a woman who also loves risk-taking and adventure, or you are likely to get bored with her very quickly, and quite possibly seek excitement with other women.
Abstracted
You spend a lot of time stuck inside your head. You love theorizing and working with abstract ideas and as a result, you often get caught up with all the different theories out there relating to meeting and attracting women. While you do CARE about the women you are interacting with, your abstract nature will cause you to easily forget things like names and other facts about her that a girl might give you over a night. If you do not make a concerted effort to remember these things, you may risk as coming across as shallow or uncaring. When in a relationship, be aware of your tendency to be inattentive to your partner and the practical aspects of a relationship.
Forthright
You are very open, straight forward and unpretentious. You never pretend to be anything that you are not. You particularly dislike people who are judgemental because you place great value on peoples right to express themselves as they are and not to have to wear a social mask. Women will most likely appreciate and comment on your genuineness, but you must be careful to exercise some degree of tact, or you risk being perceived as rude and abrupt.
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The assessment was very accurate for me, however my natural curiosity and quest for understanding had me want further understanding about the graph and what the variables were measuring and what that meant for me and of course the general populace!
Chris
First part was pretty right on
Second made no sense to me in my life







