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Real Social Dynamics is an international dating coaching company that runs occasional boot camps in various cities around australia. It was founded over a decade ago by a man who named himsefl Tyler Durden.

The School of Attraction is the biggest dating coaching company in Sydney, and has been coaching men for over a 10 years, founded by a man named Damien Diecke.


Course Duration

Real Social Dynamics: 3 Days – School Of Attraction: 3 Months

RSD has focussed on creating super dense courses that run full day training sessions over 3 days. These courses can be ideal for men who don’t have a lot of free time to dedicate to learning to attract women, and want to learn as much as humanly possible in a short period of time.

At School of Attraction, we don’t believe that it’s possible to master anything in just 3 days no matter how hard you work at it.

We find that more than just learning to attract women, most of our clients have quite a bit of self-development work to get through. They have to work on their relationship to themselves as men, their feelings about sexuality and sexual shame, and their sense of self-value just to name a few. Working through a lot of this ‘baggage’ all men walk around with simply takes months, and not days.

By working with men multiple times every week over 3 months, we provide men the time to have many moments of great personal insight over the entire program.

3 days is also not enough time to change your habits. 10 years ago when we offered weekend bootcamps, we found that men would often fall back into old habits after just a few weeks to a month. The reason for this is that its really really hard not to fall back into old behaviour patterns.

But over 3 months we’re able to ensure you get locked into new patterns of behaviour for life. Providing our clients with radical life long changes.

Total Coaching Hours

Real Social Dynamics: ~30 Hours Total

With RSD, your 30 hours are split between getting guided theory content from your coach, and going out and doing real world approaches with your coach by your side.

You can expect to receive about 20 hours of in-field training time.


School of Attraction: 52 Hours of In-Field + 9 Hours of Skype Councelling + 27 Hours of Video Theory Training

The School of Attraction course offers a full 52 hours of in-field sessions. This means that you’re getting 2-3x as much real-world experience talking to women with your coach and mentor close at hand.

You also receive 9 hours of skype councelling with head coach and founder Damien Diecke – These sessions are a chance to talk through your insecurities and your limiting beliefs – Explore the dates you went on between sessions, and generally field all the questions that arise from week to week between your practical sessions.

On top of that, you receive a theory training program that’s 27 hours in duration – This theory content goes incredibly in-depth into all the aspects of attraction, relationships, masculinity, sexuality, and male psychology.  You have life time access to this content.



RSD focusses heavily on popular psychology as attraction strategies that become popularised in the early 2000s.

While they do apply a number of strategies that are similar to industry standard processes for dealing with anxiety and limiting beliefs, they’ve never undergone a formal audit from a psychologist to ensure all processes are being applied appropriately.


School of Attraction: YES

In 2012, School of Attraction bit the bullet and submitted all of it’s coaching material to be formally assessed by a psychologist to ensure that the men we worked with were receiving the most up to date strategies available for working through a lot of their ‘inner game’ issues.

We strive to ensure that all of our content is scientifically backed and not just ‘field tested’ by a small number of guys who think they have the best strategies.

Money Back Guarantee

Real Social Dynamics: Yes  – School Of Attraction: Yes

RSD offers a  money back guarantee on their course provided you let them know you want your money back within a week of the course finishing.

I have no specific statistics, but I would imagine that almost nobody claims this money back guarantee. Why? Because when you do a weekend of intense practice on your attraction skills you will be hyped up, excited, pumped with self-confidence, and sure you can take on the world.

Unfortunately, these experiences are frequently temporary as we discovered when we ran weekend bootcamps 10 years ago.  The feelings of confidence wear off, and you fall back into old habits and all too easily your life looks not too dissimilar to how it did before you did the program.

School Of Attraction offers 100% money back guarantee at the END of 3 months, and we give you a 1 month grace period to ensure that the effects are permanent. This means that you have a lot of time to discover if we’re having a long lasting impact on your ability to attract women.

Community Support

Real Social Dynamics: Non-Registrants Only

RSD does offer a small  Sydney based community which is quite actively going out practicing talking to women.

Unfortunately the majority of these men are non-students, so while they may have read some or watched some RSD material online, the majority haven’t received formal training.

The result is a big mixed bag of skill levels, and also resepect levels, with a number of guys known for trying to steal girls from each other.


School of Attraction: Yes

One of the most important parts of learning to be more succssful with women is having a fantastic group of guys around you to regularly practice with.

Long after the coaching is over, many men wish to continue practicing their skills. They want other like-minded men to go out and practice with, but unfortunately many men have friends who are all in relationsips or married, and many of the ‘pick up’ guys they know are pretty sleazy.

School of Attraction has the most active online community of guys in Australia. We have past students going out many nights of the week together.

This is a huge addition to the School of Attraction experience because by becoming a student with us, you aren’t just forgotten after 3 days, you become a long term member of our active community.

What more is that all of our community members are past students. They’ve all received months of coach training, and been instilled with a deep sense of respect for each other. In short, our community treats each other like family.

Mentor Program

Real Social Dynamics: No – School Of Attraction: Yes

At School of Attraction, we’re all about community and learning not just from coaches but learning from the most skilled of our past students.

When you sign up for a program with us, we will assign you your very own mentor who is a talented ex-student who will take you under their wing and help you along the journey. He will go out and approach girls with you and also introduce you to our massive community of past students.

Past students all have the opportunity to come and mentor new students which is an increidble self-development experience.

Unlimited Phone Support

Real Social Dynamics: No – School Of Attraction: Yes

Throughout the entire 3 month program, students can call up any of the coaches and receive unlimited 1:1 coaching support. Whether you have dates that have failed, or don’t know what to write back to that tricky sms message, we’re here 24/7 to answer all your questions.


Lifetime Email Support

Real Social Dynamics: No – School Of Attraction: Yes

Once you become a client with us, we want you to never have to be without support again. One of the ways we achieve this is by offering a free life time email support to all of our past clients.

This means any time you struggle with wome in the years after the program, you can email us and get all the support you need to continue your attraction education.



Real Social Dynamics: $2983 – 3 Days Coaching

School Of Attraction: $4495 – 3 Months Coaching

Who We Are

School of Attraction is a dating education company with one motto: "Leave No Single Man Behind". We provide free and paid courses for men to achieve success with women.

Started by Damien Diecke in 2008, SOA has gone on to become Australia's largest dating coaching company, now setting it's sights worldwide.

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