Greatest F**king Dating Course
The Course To Meet Women Anywhere, Anytime
Next Start Date: SAT Jun 22 - @ 11AM
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“I Want To Be Successful With Women…BUT“
In-Depth Training Program
This is why we don’t do weekend bootcamps or short courses.
We did offer them for a while, especially for international guys.
We don’t offer them anymore for beginners…
We only do 12 week programs. 3 months.The reason I do this is because I know that I need to consistently work on a person to get a consistent result.
The slow gradual change…
And what I need to do is create habits.
Right now you have a habit… you go out, you see a cute girl and your habit is ‘Cure girl, I’d love to talk to her’.
But you don’t.
And what you want to do is get to a point where you say, ‘Cute girl, I have to talk to her’ and you walk over because what’s the worst that can happen?
And in the beginning it’s really hard.
You need someone to hold your hand and push you at your own pace.
What a coach does is he holds you to task. He doesn’t push you harder than you can go.
But he doesn’t let you slack off when you want to go easy on yourself.
That’s what a coach does and this is what we do when we train guys.
There is 27 Hours of theory.
Because there is so much you can learn.
There is so far that we can take you.
Here’s a quick taste of some of the guidelines we use to improve your self confidence quickly:
A Great Man Does Not Need To Lie, Deceive Or Manipulate Women: Doing any of these things degrades your self esteem over time and it does not speed up your success with women. You will never truly believe a woman is truly into you if you had to use pickup lines, routines or anything other than your true self to get her. And more often than not, it creates a barrier for true human connection.
A Great Mean Does Not Blame Women For His Shortcomings : A lot of us men feel a huge amount of frustration towards women. What can be a hard but necessary lesson to learn is that women are a mirror – they smell inauthenticity a mile away, whether they’re too polite to say something or not. Understanding this and utilising them as a barometer for your self development can have amazing impact on your happiness.
A Great Man Is Up-front And Is Not Afraid Of His Sexuality: Yes there are plenty of women that want the same things you do. But most men are afraid to show their true intention, leading to so much confusion and frustration. The more you say what you want, the easier it will be to find. Simple as that.
A Great Man Questions Everything: Even our methods. It’s important to understand the science behind your improvement. And why we do what we do. For example we only have male coaches. Why? Because each of our coaches have been students who worked their butt off with thousands of hours of experience. Whilst a woman is a great facilitator to making the guys comfortable, they have very little experience on the millions of frustrations men go through in dating. Our experience level is unmatched and we welcome any and all questions.
A Great Man Can Be Trusted : The type of guy that can keep a secret, that showcases tact in delicate situations and doesn’t go around kissing and boasting. This is the kind of guy women share their deepest fantasies with, trust not to blab all over town and generally be a classy guy. Because we strive to be classy is why we don’t share approach videos publicly and why we don’t show pictures of women we’ve dated like other less reputable companies do – I mean it’s also illegal but also a total douche move. We’re better than that.
And much more…
It’s Sure-Fire Paint By Numbers
BE AWARE – Dating coaching companies are NOT created equal…
This is me, Damien Diecke,
- Founder & Head Coach here at School of Attraction.
- Author of the award winning book ‘Sincere Seduction’
- Popular Youtube Influencer
Most dating coaching companies are pick up artists spouting dangerous confidence-shattering advice.
Others are thinly-veiled escort agencies…
We’ve been around for over 10 years so we’ve seen it all.
Back when pick up artistry was at it’s peak, we started a revolution – to teach dating and social skills WITHOUT pickup lines, routines and manipulation.
And we were going to do long 12 week courses instead of weekend bootcamps because we believed change does NOT happen in a weekend (science agrees with us).
And over the years, dating coaches and pickup artists and come and gone but we’ve remained number 1…
Because we believed in what we were doing and we have the community to prove that our methods work – because they’re scientific and because we are constantly improving our methods.
Hold Your Hand Every Step Of The Way
So what’s included in the dating course…
There is 52 hours of practical sessions. What we do is we take you out. You are out in a bar, out during the day talking to girls.
And we are there and we are watching you.
And we can see, “Hey! You’re standing too close, she’s trying to get away from you.”
Or we can see, “Hey wait! From about 2 minutes in you said something that ticked her off, what was it? Yep, ok so what we need to do is….”
The interesting thing is that you can learn and see all the things that nobody ever told you was wrong. All your nervous tics and idiosyncrasies.
And one of the first things we have to do with anyone is we fix all these things that no one informs us.
It’s sad but no one informs us, “Hey! She sees you kind of pretending to notice her at the last minute and swing around and say hello! And that’s making you look bad.”
No one tells us that we’re all rigid with our shoulders and we look kind of nervous and creepy.
Nobody gives us this feedback, this kind of detail that we need.
With us, it’s not just the coaches that will give you these feedback but the mentors and students as well.
We have the most active community in Australia. If you go to the Ivy or the Argyle on a weekend, you’ll run into a few students.
You’ll spend half the night shaking hands with other guys.
And that’s great because what happens is after a program like this, you want to keep getting better.
I don’t care how far you come in 12 weeks, you’re going to want to get better, that’s human.
It’s the same as making money. You make 2 million dollars, you want 5, you make 5 million, you want 10.
You always want to be able to get better.
But you need people to head out with.
You need people who are dedicated to keeping on getting better.
And every single one of our guys in our community is an ex student.
There is also a personal mentor service so every single person is assigned a mentor in the program.
What is a mentor? Well I am a coach and I have a number of other coaches who were ex students that we work with.
A mentor is student who’s worked really hard and going well. Who’s also going to out with you regularly. Who’s going to be more like your talented wingman.
He’s the guy that’s going to go in, jump into talking to women with you, keep you moving and keep you motivated.
He’s making sure that while a coach is not around, you’re still working, you’re still growing, you’re still adapting.
And the other thing he’s doing is he’s introducing you to all the other students in the program.
He’s closer to where you were than a coach is but he’s getting much better results than you are at that point.
But he knows where you were. He’s been there not so long ago.
52 Hours Of In-Field Coaching
Every week you meet with either a coach or a mentor for 4 hours where he’ll watch you talk to women, help you overcome any challenges and motivate you to accomplish your goals.
Our coaches have undergone one of the most rigorous training programmes imaginable. They don’t just have to be great with women, but they have to be genuinely amazing at getting the best results from you. They have all been through the 12 week course as students, achieved great success and then been individually hand-picked and trained by Damien.
These sessions are very powerful and our coaches are very, very good at what they do.
27 Hours Of Video Training
Every week, watch a new 2-Hour theory session online delivered by Damien. You can watch and re-watch these sessions any time at your leisure.
Understand which changes you need to make and why. These sessions will give you the framework for your in-field sessions. You will also obtain perspective through the structure and avoid getting too stuck in your head.
9 Strategy Q & A Sessions With Coach
Your weekly Q & A sessions allow you to ask anything, share any struggles and bond with your coach.
These sessions allow for unique circumstances to come up and ensure you get answers to anything we may not have covered in the course.
Active Community
Our awesome community is full of awesome guys that hang out together and have heaps of fun. We love our guys so much that we hang out with them on our nights off sometimes.
They’re that good.
We also have regular events and hangouts where we chill out and have fun making new friends.
Unlimited Email & SMS Support
Weird situations come up that you haven’t learnt about?
Don’t worry! Email, text or call your coach and get an answer asap!
Understand what your coach would do in your situation and why – this is the best way to learn.
Student Experience Forum
All of our coaches were students once, just like you. Read how all of our coaches went from being where you are to becoming amazing coaches. They’ve worked many, many of hours to be successful and their journey is highlighted step by step on the forum.
Yes, you will get access to their story, and everyone else’s!
We’ll Show You The Ins & Outs
Here’s how the course works over 12 weeks…
Really quickly this is how it’s structured okay.
If you come on board, what happens is you have a theory session. Great, it’s a 2 hour theory session. That is viewable, you view that online.
Then midweek evening, usually a Tuesday or Wednesday evening, you’re going to hop on Skype and what we’re going to do is we’re going to start talking about ‘What did you struggle with in general?’, What are going to work on for this weekend.
It’s a strategy session.
Based on the theory, any questions based on the theory? Okay. What are we going to do? What are you most worried about? How are we going to tackle that?
Fantastic. I’ll see you on the weekend. It’s a hour session that we run.
Then we have a practical session out with a coach just like I explained.
Then week 2 same thing again, another theory session and another strategy session.
Practical session again, this time with a mentor rather than a coach.
Week 3 another theory, strategy session and session with coach.
This cycle repeats. You have 3 points of contact with us every single week.
It ends up being 8 hours – there’s a two hour theory, there’s a one hour strategy and there’s a four hour practical session.
The first two can be done from home so you don’t have to go somewhere to get these done.
It just repeats and it goes on and on for 13 weeks guys.
Have you any idea what you can do in 13 weeks, working 8 hours a week on something.
There’s a huge amount that we can do, There’s a huge amount that we can teach in that amount of time.
Week 1 – We Get To Know You…
Week 2 – You Meet Your Mentor
Weeks 3,4,5,6,7,8, – Each week, you alternate between seeing your coach and your mentor
- Week 3 – You have a strategy session mid-week, watch the relevant video tutorials and meet your coach for an in-field session.
WEEK 3 WE FOCUS ON: Setting Powerful Goals, Being A Great Wingman & Building Unstoppable Confidence - Week 4 – You again have a strategy session mid-week, watch the relevant video tutorials and meet your mentor for an in-field session.
WEEK 4 WE FOCUS ON: Building Deep Rapport & Plotting Your Journey For Success - Week 5 – Alternating back to the same thing – strategy session, video tutorials mid week and in-field coaching on weekend.
WEEK 5 WE FOCUS ON: Mastering Phone & Text Conversations, Creating the Perfect First Date & Failure Dynamics - Week 6 – Back to mentoring so strategy session, video tutorials mid week and mentor session on the weekend
WEEK 6 WE FOCUS ON: Body Language, Women On The Move & Showing Off Your Strengths - Week 7 – Strategy Session, videos, in-field coaching.
WEEK 7 WE FOCUS ON: Sexuality, How To Be Amazing In Bed & Casual Sex Relationships - Week 8 -Strategy Session, videos, mentor session
WEEK 8 WE FOCUS ON: Choosing The Perfect Partner, Keeping Relationships Awesome & Happiness
Week 9 – Your Last Session With Your Coach
Week 10,11,12+ – You Become A Mentor
It’s a long-term relationship…
Here’s why our prices are very reasonable
Let me ask you, I assume you’ve been on a holiday before…
Recently, I looked at possibly going away to Fiji with my girlfriend.
And I looked at prices.
If I want to hop on a plane and head over to Nadi, the capital of Fiji, it would cost me $1080.
If I want to stay there for two weeks. So I’m going somewhere that’s moderately cheap, it’s going to cost me about $150 a night.
We can go a bit cheaper if we like but I’m really scrimping in other parts of my holiday.
So if you’re staying at a 4-star place, $150 a night and you’re not going to be on the beach, you’re going to be back from the beach.
Food and drinks for 14 days, let’s say $40 a day and that includes your alcohol. It’s not much to spend 40 bucks a day on your holiday.
And finally $300 for 14 days just for random activities.
That holiday guys, that cost me just over 4 grand for a 14 day holiday.
And we’ve all been on holidays like this before…
And you go on a holiday and you have a really good time, then you come home and nothing has changes.
Everything is back as it was.
If you do a program with us, every weekend you have for the rest of your life will be different.
You will be different, you’ll be evolved.
You will see a girl and you will confidently walk over to her.
This is a shift and it’s a shift that costs us a little more than a moderately cheap holiday that we’ve all been on before.
This is 13 weeks, 8 hours a week of consistent practice.
This is a massive, massive, massive shift.
Pricing Structure
Upfront
- one time payment in full
3 Month Payment Plan
Most Popular- paid monthly over 3 months
6 Month Payment Plan
- paid monthly over 6 months
Course amount breakdown ^
| What’s included: | No. of Hrs | $ Per Hour | RRP | Discount |
| In-field coaching with dating coach | 20 | 150 | 4000 | 3000 |
| Intensive video training | 27 | 25.7 | 999 | 695 |
| Strategy sessions with senior coach | 9 | 200 | 2700 | 1800 |
| In-field coaching with mentor | 16 | _ | 800 | Included |
| In-field coaching as mentee | 16 | _ | 800 | Included |
| Large active community | Unlimited | _ | 200 | Included |
| Phone & Email support | Unlimited | _ | 500 | Included |
| Student forum | Unlimited | _ | 99 | Included |
| TOTAL | >88 hrs | <$62.4 p/h | 10 098 | 5495 (limited time only) |
Next Start Date: SAT Jun 22 - @ 11AM
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100% Money Back Guarantee
Now, the other thing you won’t get on a holiday that we do, because I’m asking for good money for most people.
You don’t reach into your pocket, pull out 5995 and say, “here you go, awesome!”, hope it’s alright…
Most people would call this an investment. You’re investing to get a specific result.
I have no interest in taking anyone’s money who I can’t get that result from.
That’s the whole point.
I work in an industry where we’ve kind of seen in the media before.
There’s some nasty side to it, some not great side.
And I have no interest in working with anyone and not getting them what I promised I’m going to get them.
So any program that I do, any program that you do with me, there is a 100% money back offered on that.
It’s written into the contract. I can’t escape it legally, no matter how much I might like.
All you need to do is make sure you’ve attended every session and if by the last session you come to me and you say ‘Damien. I really don’t think I got what I was hoping to, you’ll get your money back’.
That’s written in there.
The way that I do that, the reason I do that, is that I wouldn’t want a single person to go and talk to their mates about what I do and say ‘Ehh it was a waste of money’.
I want them to at the very least say ‘You know what? I didn’t get the results I wanted but he did give me my money back’.
That’s a very very different conversation you’re going to have with someone who’s going to ask about us.
So this is why we offer that on our program.
But here’s the thing.
For me to offer that guarantee, I have to know that I can get the result from you.
So if you want to do this program with us, if you’re interested in finding out more, you must have a chat with me.
I have to get to know you. Why? Because I have to know that I can get the result.
There are certain circumstances under which I will say, ‘You know what, I’m not sure that we can work together’.
It doesn’t mean that there’s something fundamentally wrong with you. Sometimes guys need different types of help that I cannot provide.
I don’t care how unconfident you are, that has nothing to do with whether I will work with you. I don’t care if you have no experience at all with girls, that plays no role for me, it’s other things I’m looking for.
So I want to make sure that I’ve talked with everyone because I know how to get results.
I’m guaranteeing that.
Incredibly Easy To Get Started
What happens after you apply?
If you are interested to have a meeting with me, what I want you to do is click the apply button and request to have a meeting with me.
What I will do, this is not a paid meeting, I will sit down and we’ll have a chat on the phone about where are you at? What are you struggling with? What’s going on with you?…
It is not in my best interest to push you to do a program like this if:
a) I don’t think you’re right for it, or
b) you don’t want to do it.
I don’t pick up girls that way and I don’t bring on clients that way.
What I want to do is talk to you, give you a chance to get to know me, what am I like in person because obviously this is just Damien up on a website.
If you’re interested to have a meeting, find out more about this program, see if you’re applicable and I can offer you this guarantee to come on board, fill in this form and I will organise a suitable time to have a chat with you.
STEP 1: Damien, the founder and head coach organises a time to chat with you personally for 30 minutes. Here he’ll answer all your questions and get to know you personally. He will tell you at the end of the call whether he thinks the course is right for you.
STEP 2: Once accepted, you’ll receive an email with online registration details for the next available course date. You are also able to register over the phone if that’s what you prefer. Once completed, you’ll automatically be given specific details of the course.
STEP 3: Tell us about who you are. Complete a questionnaire about your experience and what you expect from the course to determine how best to help you.
STEP 4: Last thing to be done is to schedule times based on your availabilities. It may take a couple of tries to get everyone scheduled into sessions as you’ll be completing the course with two other guys.
Once this is all done, we’re ready to get this party started!
Q & A
Here’s some frequently asked questions we answer all the time
Q. What if I can't make certain dates?
Don’t worry, we can change dates to suit you. If you’re off on a holiday we can put the course on hold for you. If you’re sick, we’ll change dates around for you – we got you covered!
Q. How can you deliver all this for the same price as a weekend bootcamp or 10 day course?
Damien was determined to create a program that focussed on results for YOU before profits. He designed this 3 month program specifically so that it could match the price point of a high end weekend bootcamp, but deliver so much more value that there would be absolutely no competition
Q. Can I get drunk during the sessions?
We don’t allow drinking in any of our practical sessions. We don’t want anyone using alcohol as a crutch to give them fake confidence. We’ve had clients who have made up the course investment price by simply avoiding alcohol for the 3 month period.
Q. Do you offer payment plans?
Yes, we most certainly do offer a range of payment options from up front to reduced price payments up to 6 month plans.
Q. I feel like I know so much theory already. Do I really need to learn more?
Absolutely. The process we provide has taken years to perfect and we know that it’s unlike anything you’ve ever read before in the industry. Guys who need to be pushed into the theory sessions because they ‘know it all’ always come out grateful that they attended. Trust us, there’s plenty for you to learn yet – keep an open mind!
Q. Where am I doing these in-field coaching/mentor sessions?
All of your sessions will take part in and around the CBD. We have a variety of day and night venues we frequent, but where we go from week to week will vary based on weather and seasonal fluctuation.
Q. What if I'm the one person that doesn't get results?
Sadly, this is a fear that a lot of men have. We will personally screen you prior to commencing a program with us. There certainly can be circumstances under which we may be unable to help such as if you are suffering from a psychiatric disorder. But if you are simply a socially awkward guy, who has little to no experience with women or who suffers from a chronic case of social anxiety then, we can definitely help you. If we accept you into the program and you don’t get great results, then we will offer you 100% money back. This guarantee is written into your contract so that we are legally obliged to fulfil the warranty.
Q. Do you provide private coaching sessions?
We do offer private coaching for those guys that prefer their privacy. However, it does cost considerably more and in our experience, doing the course with other guys builds a camaraderie that helps you build momentum and keep pushing yourself at an accelerated rate. The community we have is the most supportive environment you will find and this is incredibly valuable to your success. We’ll do it but we don’t recommend it.
You’ll learn skills that will make you successful outside of dating…
Feel confident enough to ask for a raise, build your own company, get out of your own head, have meaningful conversations and manage your relationships better.
In my everyday life I get these emails and text messages coming through regularly, at least once or twice a week from past students telling me, “Oh my god! This amazing thing just happened!”
And the other line which is amazing to receive and I never quite absorb it as much as I should but they’ll say, “This is thanks to you”.
I get this a lot and I love it. Someone’s life has changed and we’ve played a little role.
They did all the hard work but I showed them the way and I love that! I really really love that…
Building Confidence
Handling Rejection
Creating Boundaries
Managing Emotions
Problem Solving
Banter & Humour
Building Rapport
Being Happy
Keeping Relationships
HUGE upside and little downside to joining us…
So what are you waiting for?
There are many, many guys whose lives we can radically alter.
If you’re thinking to yourself, “You know what? I don’t know if this guy is for me.” – that’s cool, I have no qualms with that…
But if you’re sitting there and you’re thinking ‘You know I really should do this…I really should look into this…”
But you don’t. It’s exactly like seeing a cute girl, saying to yourself you really should go talk to her. You should…but you don’t.
I’m not going to push you to do anything.
We don’t believe in pressure sales but what I do believe in is if you want to make a change, if you think that you deserve a change and you think there’s a chance we can get you there and you want to find out if I believe there’s a chance as well, then you should take that action.
THAT is the action that you guys should take.
Click the button below and apply because what I hate is when I meet a guy here who I know I can do amazing things with and I’m like ‘Oh my god! He would be so easy for me as a client. Wow!’
And they’re like ‘Oh I don’t know if I can. I don’t know – maybe I’m too ugly.
And I get that a lot and it’s very frustrating. I don’t do this because I feel annoyed at the guy.
I feel sorry for the guy because his life isn’t going to change one little bit.
And that’s the saddest thing about it all – knowing you can help but there’s nothing you can do if the person cannot help themself.
God how I wish I had done this when I was younger. I would have saved myself so much heartache, and gotten myself a hell of a lot more fun…
Next Start Date: SAT Jun 22 - @ 11AM
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Here’s What Other Students Have To Say About Us
We’d be happy to put you in touch with any of our past and present students
“Everything was surprisingly easy…”
The best part is that these guys are not the type of guys you see out standing awkwardly, not approaching with a game face that would creep their own mothers out. These guys have fun, they talk to women and they have become exceptionally good at it. A lot of guys have consistent success, have built their dating lifestyles to an amazing level, and have grown to become the men they always wanted to be. They are confident and they have fun even to a point of where women approach them just to be part of the fun.
Not knowing what to expect from Damien and his team and not knowing how well he’d be as a coach, I would be lying if I said I wasn’t still a little skeptical to whether he was the real deal or not when it came to my first practical. However this skepticism quickly disappeared as I not only saw women opening them constantly but seeing them handle it like a smooth m*therf*cker. I manage to see how good they were and just oozed confident energy everywhere they went. I remember thinking to myself I want to be like these guys!
I’ll just tell you straight up, the course is without a doubt the best educational investment I’ve ever made. I’ve completed a degree in Psychology, and also a Counselling Diploma, but I’ve actually learnt much more from Damien, Adam, and my mentors. The reason is because the course is 80% practical and 20% theoretical, rather than studying.
When I first started, I was literally shaking with nerves. But now, only 2.5 months later, I can go out during the day or night and approach just about any woman I want (I’ve approached girls with their mums, and even girls on their mobile phones whilst in Sportsgirl). And the best thing is that now I’m having the time of my life, I’ve never felt so alive. I’ve been getting numbers every week, and I’ve also learnt how to build enough rapport to get instant dates with women on the spot. These women, after the instant date, actually message me to hang out again. In other words, I got measurable results.
After the first practical I was 100% better. I could not believe the results.
Today I tell everyone that this wonderful course has given me a life I’m proud of, as I enjoy being young and everything that it has to offer.
The best thing about Sincere Seduction Intensive is that they won’t change who you are. You’ll still be the same guy, just a more confident version. They won’t make you use any stupid gimmicky tricks or lines, it’s based on genuine and solid psychology of what works in terms of getting connected with other people. I was so impressed that there was no manipulation involved. That would have been a deal breaker for me. School of Attraction doesn’t rely on this, instead, you learn to have the confidence to speak your mind, and follow through with your actions, and it simply works. Who would have thought?..
I had taken CONTROL of my own success with women
I’d been to a couple of workshops before, and some of them were pretty fun, but working with Damien was a different experience altogether. I left feeling like I had taken control of my own success with women, like I could keep getting better without ever falling into a stagnant rut again. Highly recommended!
Fun Experience…
By the end of the course, I was sparking new conversations with women without hesitation, was quick witted and had made a genuine connection in only a few minutes nearly every time. Having these genuine connections and long conversations allowed me to know a lot more about the woman I was meeting, and afforded me the luxury of making more informed decisions on who I wanted to pursue a date with.
More importantly, I was having fun and what seemed like a daunting task to go out and meet women suddenly became more enjoyable and fun experience. Thank you again!
My First Practical… I Went Home With A Girl!
From the first practical, you understand what it’s all about. I was so nervous walking into the club wondering what I had gotten myself into. We start off slowly by just being social and having fun. Then it’s time to approach girls and complete your goals for the night. My coach sometimes joined in with me and sometimes I was on my own.
I felt more and more comfortable as time went on and plucked up the courage to ask a girl on a date.
I was completely amazed when she said yes. I thought for sure she would turn me down or worse slap me in front of everyone. Even now as I think about it, most of it had to do with having a great time, being social and talking to people
*One Of The Biggest Things I Gained Was Comfort In My Own Skin…
As the weeks went on, I was starting to get some major improvement through the constant momentum. My goals were getting much more challenging and complex. My communication skills with women were improving and I was quickly getting better results with the women I talked to. I was getting more numbers, isolating and even got my first club phone number! One of the biggest things I gained was comfort in my own skin. I was confident in the club, I was having fun and I was starting to really push the envelope in my interactions and was starting to smash some limiting beliefs I had in regards to interacting with women in the club.Thank you!
This teaching is not only good for meeting high calibre girls, but improving relationships with male and female friends and work colleagues.
Having experienced the best and most famous dating coaches in United States and London, Damien and his coaches are of the highest standard worldwide. His skills are fantastic and his attention to the student is unsurpassed.
However the critical point, is that they have their shit together – they are balanced and normal guys. When you are tuning your goals and personality, these are the kind of people who will lead you in a normal direction. Everyone should do a course with Damien. We are incredibly lucky to have him still living / teaching in Sydney.
The Community Bond Is Strong And Improvement Is Quick!
After completing the course, a majority of students, mentors and coaches are tight…, our community, friendships and bonds are strong and therefore the improvement goes beyond completion of the course!! One of SOAs strengths is the motivation behind each person in the community; you see them constantly out; organising outings to go out and work on this stuff, giving advice from their experiences and contributing information into the community. I am confident that if I go out to a popular night club, I will come across SOA guys, even if I didn’t plan ahead and organise a friend, I know ill always find one there. This is gold!!
My mentor was honest with me as to where he was at, he didn’t pretend to be a coach nor a man who has supreme success with women, He was just a guy who was a little further down the track than I was and who could understand and relate to where I was at – which meant I couldn’t bullsh*t him when it came to certain things and he’d know exactly why I failed to do something. He would then be able to give me his advice based on his experience on the same sticking point and situations and where he was unsure; he would ask one of the other SOA coaches. I loved these sessions.
Paying the money was the best decision I ever made
I have made friends with men who were motivated and pushed each other to succeed, who supported each other and helped each other to achieve a common goal; being involved with this kind of social group not only taught me a lot but also helped me raise the bar.
Damien and his team’s knowledge and experience in the field taught me things that would have taken me a long time to figure out if I were to have done it on my own, To this day I still seek out advice and they are more than happy to give it to me. They have overseen my progress in this journey and till this day, are more than happy to help me with any challenges I face.
I look back at the day when I was about to pay the money for the course, thinking to myself “Man you are probably going to regret this”. Little did I know that the value I’d get out of it at the time, the amazing experience, the life changing insights and the friendships made; the course not only improved my game but I’ve made high value friendships as well as become part of something extraordinary and unique. I look back at that day when faced with paying the money and think that it was best decision I ever made.
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I had an okay life, got into a long term relationship and felt frustrated that I was not able to make the choices I wanted to. I decided it was time to take responsibility for my future and start making things happen.
My fear was that this would be just another course – I had done so many and nothing had changed. Then I saw the potential that was possible – the success stories – I made a decision to really give it a go, and what really helped me was the support I received through coaching, mentoring, student support, and relationships with fellow students.
I was able to learn exactly what I needed to become a successful seductionist. I was not the fastest person to pick up a girl! It took me a while to get how much of a difference I could really make for myself and for someone else. I had to work through my own stuff first, which is great, because now I feel anything is possible! I ended up picking up the same amount of girls I used to pick up… for half the time and the effort! How great is that! I now get to make my life matter on a much grander scale, I’m bored much less than I used to be, I get to choose who I date. Best of all, I love what I do and who I am! I cant thank the team at The School of Attraction enough for helping me see my true potential. Two months ago, I could never have imagined that this is how great it could be!
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This testimonial is written on the looong journey back to Norway. It is the perfect time to mentally summarize my study year abroad in Sydney, whereby five months were spent in the SOA community of “exceptionally great men”. My handle on the forum is “Happy” and I am 24 years old.
First I want to say a little bit about where I was coming from. In terms of abilities with women I would rate myself average. I came from a tricky place, though. I was decently successful with women during my last “single” period up until I was 20 years old. I saw my game as narrow in terms of needing alcohol to have the confidence to pick up, but I did get a lot of make outs and occasionally also sex. The women that I hooked up with was usually not of the calibre that I wanted to go any further with them. I did get a girlfriend, though, that I enjoyed spending time with and made it worthwhile going of the market for.
2,5 years later (December 2010) we broke up and I was single again. In the mean time something had happened. I had been forced to drastically lower my alcohol consumption because of a medical condition that had occurred. This meant that my old game plan of getting intoxicated before chatting up birds was impossible and I had to start doing things sober. I did some approaches here and there when being out, but I was not very consistent with what I did. I was using ideas from Neil Strauss and David DeAngelo, which did not pay of well. I realise now that the main problem was that I was not confident about the fact that I had to present canned material to attract women.
By misinterpreting DeAngelos material I was overusing the cockey part in his cockey-funny mindset. I tended to repel girls that were attracted to me rather than to close them. My confidence with women was not good – especially in the bar/night club market. I knew that things needed to change.
I joined School of Attraction’s phone game seminar in late June, and wanted to meet some pick up guys that I could go out with and have a symbiotic friendship with as wingmen. I ended up talking to a School of Attraction guy that was a couple of weeks into the course and said: “Hey dude, if you’ve got the money sign up for it!” Seeing [name removed] speak to a crowd in a passionate way and seeing how passionate he was for coaching made an impression on me, but still – I thought it was way too much money. After a week of seriously thinking about it and also going out three times with people I met at the seminar made me sign up. As a student, this was/is a whole lot of money for me, but I was never in doubt that I would look back on the experience not regretting it when I submitted the payment. I knew that I would have it in me to take on this challenge with getting the most out of it. I also knew that I had it in me to push myself outside my comfort zone, but I needed a safe environment were I could get encouragement and support along the way. I take the hat of to people going on this journey on their own, but for me it would be too hard to start out with.
I expected that I would have to do all the hard work myself, but that there would be a community of people to help me out, and a coach that wanted me to succeed and would help me out wherever possible. That is exactly what my experience has been so far after five months. School Of Attraction does not seem to attract people that go for the quick fix of getting good with women. The quick fix does not exist. Most people, myself included, see the program as a way of creating new habits for oneself in terms of pushing oneself and going places one has not been before. From now on I do not see myself not trying to develop in any desired way in life. For now it is mostly about getting better with women, but that will probably change in the future. The point is that I have created a habit for myself were I don’t accept mediocrity where I know I can and want to get better.
During the period of the course my confidence with women increased a lot and I felt a gradual increase of skills even though there were some downs every now and then. The toughest part for me so far was right after the last practical. During the course it was easy to push myself in between the practicals to go out a lot, because I wanted to show myself that I had improved between every practical. When I did not have any regular practicals to go to it felt like the air went a little bit out of the balloon and it was really hard to motivate myself. That was when I decided that this was a crucial part of my journey and that I would face my issues and work even harder. I really pushed myself in terms of going out when it was the last thing in the world that I wanted to do. The result of that was that I got through the tough period with an even more increased confidence and very slowly more and more pieces started to fall into place. Looking back on my experiences lately would be jaw dropping for myself 6 months ago. I am in a really good place right now in terms of relating to women and it feels [censored word removed] good!
As most other people, I realised after a couple of months what I really wanted out of the path that I was going. In the beginning it was all about pulling girls, whereas now I know that the most important thing is to end up with a girl that I would be proud of and excited about spending the rest of my life with.
Is it worth the money? What I have written so far have hopefully been a give away – it has been/will be worth every cent. The fact that I paid what I paid has probably contributed a lot to my commitment to keep pushing myself when times get tough. My behaviours around women and in other parts of my life have definitely changed. Before I made a lot of excuses for not going 100% for a girl, whereas now I push every interaction as far as possible. I don’t believe in living life by playing it safe, which has lead to a lot of ups and some downs. My mentality now is that I am not that outcome dependent, but rather get a kick of trying to go further with an interaction. I don’t overanalyse things, but rather give an issue some thinking if it is a recurring thing.
For me, working on something that I know that I should be working on is the best way of generating happiness. “Getting better with women” is a goal that I have now, and is more a general focus point in life rather then a specific achievable one. Working with and towards something on a regular basis has boosted my sense of self and my level of happiness. My psychology and mental healthiness have never been better. Up to several people have lately commented on that they can tell that I am in a good place right now from the energy that I am radiating. Nothing is better to hear then that.
I can give SOA a lot of the credit for where I am right now and how I am feeling. I would not have been there without SOA. I have seen with my own eyes the transformations a lot of SOA guys, people that I am proud to call friends, have gone through. It is just amazing. Don’t expect to get there by doing the minimum requirements, though. Consistency with going out and setting up short term smart goals for yourself will get you there in time.
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By the end of the course, I was sparking new conversations with women without hesitation, was quick witted and had made a genuine connection in only a few minutes nearly every time. Having these genuine connections and long conversations allowed me to know a lot more about the woman I was meeting, and afforded me the luxury of making more informed decisions on who I wanted to pursue a date with.
More importantly, I was having fun and what seemed like a daunting task to go out and meet women suddenly became more enjoyable and fun experience. Thank you again!
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